Perhaps you’re after some tips to freshen up your foreplay with a long-term partner? 

Or maybe you’re nervous about kissing in general? 

Either way, this guide is here to help you. It explains all the spots where men love to be touched while kissing.

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However, before you digest these tips, it’s important for you to carefully read the following sentences. 

Foreplay tips, sex moves and physical touch can help a man retain his interest in you, but it’s even more effective to stimulate his emotions.

This is the best way to make him obsess over you. 

That’s why I wanted to share my discovery of a powerful psychological trigger that cuts deep into a man’s emotions. 

It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

When you activate this trigger, it does so much to make him feel closer to you emotionally.

This can be the difference between being seen as ‘just another woman’ or a potential life partner (read my personal story to see how I learned this). 

Few people seem to know about this aspect of male psychology, but it appears to affect most straight men. 

If you’re looking to add more passion and emotion into your relationships, it’s well worth learning how to trigger a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

That’s not to say that adding to your repertoire of foreplay moves isn’t an awesome thing to do! A great physical connection is also crucial to a lasting relationship.

So, let’s dive into our list of places to touch a man while kissing…


Touch His Neck

The neck is one of the best erogenous zones because it is full of nerve endings. It is a good place to start touching your man while you kiss him, especially because the neck isn"t far from the lips - so if you aren"t too confident to have your hands roaming around the rest of his body just yet. There are several ways you can stimulate this area by touch. You can gently put your hands on his neck as you kiss, and you can bring him closer into your kiss by gently pulling. This will deepen the kiss. Depending on how confident you feel around your man, you might even want to try and grasp your hands and slightly choke him - start by doing this gently, to see if he likes it. Some men like to be dominated, but you should always test the waters gently, at first.

In addition to putting your hands on his neck, you can also kiss him there too. You can slowly move your lips down from his, and shower his neck with kisses. You can even gently nibble him, and see if he likes it. After you have spent some time focusing on this area, you can move the kisses further down his body...

Touch His Ears


It"s not just a woman thing - guys like to have their bums touched too! While you are kissing your guy, there"s nothing hotter than pulling him towards you by grabbing his bum. Men like to feel like they"re wanted, so place your hands on his bum and pull him into you. After you"ve done this, while you are kissing him, he"ll like it if you keep touching his bum. So, keep your hands where they are and squeeze his buttocks while you kiss him.

Some men like to be touched on their bum a little more than others, and some are even partial to having oral sex performed on them in this area, others don"t like it at all. See how your man feels about being touched on the bum. If he wants more or wants less, you will be able to tell by the way he responds.

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Touch His Groin Area

This is one of the most obvious places you will probably touch your guy while you"re kissing him, and it"s the most erotic if done correctly. Do not go and touch his groin area as soon as you have started kissing - guys like to be teased. Also, if you put your hands straight to this area, your man will probably expect you to do this every time you kiss - kissing shouldn"t always lead to having sex, sometimes it is nice to be just romantic.